In the beginning hit the clubs.
That’s your training ground.
Doesn’t matter if you are introverted. I used to be introverted as well. I still am, but that’s the beauty of action. It loosens you up.
This is the single thing that is going to solve your problems with being shy, anxious, awkward, weird, creepy etc.
Now what does that mean?
First, you decide you are going to take action in the club, you won’t just stay in the corner drinking your beer like most guys, you will take action in the direction of your goal of getting a girlfriend.
Not any girlfriend, someone who you will have chemistry with, who is going to understand you and with whom you are going to be yourself and feel enough, like you always belonged together.
This is someone you will grow with, someone who will challenge you along the way and who will be a companion for whatever while in this little time we have on this earth.
And btw. Don’t worry about her being “the” one. That’s not relevant now. At this point it’s just about the experience, you will know if it’s the one when it happens.
This might look like pick-up artist stuff, “game”, or whatnot, it’s not that.
We are not about getting the girl for the sake of number, or to feel good about ourselves or to be better than our friends.
We are about setting a goal and achieving it.
You know what the craziest part is?
I will reveal the secret.
You just have to learn to communicate normally.
That’s it.
Be able to articulate your thoughts, words and actions clearly in front of a girl.
It’s not easy, but it’s possible.
100 hours of talking to girls and you will end up in the 1% of the guys in this world.
From here; you are golden. You will be able to talk to any girl any time and feel comfortable, relaxed and flexible with what you can make with the situation.
The results don’t matter at this point. Sure, if an opportunity presents itself, go for the number, go for the kiss, go for sex, do all that, but don’t worry if it doesn’t go well. Fuck it.
You are doing your 100 hours, that’s the mission.
100 hours of talking with girls, 100 hours of kissing, 100 hours of having sex.
If you do this, it’s impossible that you don’t get a girlfriend.
It is going to happen.
I guarantee it.
Compliments help. Being carefree helps. Letting go of the outcome helps.
Let’s get into the details.